Wednesday, May 4, 2011

Great Day for a Beer

Sunday began this month's challenge of drinking more water, drinking nothing but water. Sunday also came with the opportunity to help prep and paint a house in Palmdale, a community in the high desert region of the northeastern part of Los Angeles County. A great day of working outside with friends and family as well as learning about what it takes to paint a house. After a warm day of manual labor in the sun there is one beverage that reigns supreme over the rest.


Doesn't really matter what your brand of choice is. As a self-professed drink snob, this is the one occasion where drinkers of all types of quality can come together to enjoy a brew. This is also the one time when a lesser beer might even be more apropos. Why? Science.

I couldn't fail this challenge on Day 1 though.

After some hard work a few of us decided to travel into the mountains for an adventure. This adventure would lead us to the relaxing creek of Piru. With a cooler filled with chips, dried fruit, peanuts and some 'cold ones', four adventurers began the coolest Happy Hour in Los Angeles.
With our sore feet cooling in the creek, we laughed, we talked, we fished, we ate and we drank. What is it about being outdoors with your buds that makes a cold beer taste better?

Two great activities in one day, my first day of the challenge, that were begging to be capped off by a cold refreshing beer.


Did I have a cold one with my friends? Yes. But it was a different cold one.

Monday, May 2, 2011

May Challenge!

Monthly Challenge

For the month of May, I will be abstaining from beverages other than water. Which means for the month of May, I will not have the following items (just some of my favorite items):
  • Green Tea
  • Hendricks & Tonic
  • Old Fashioned
  • Jameson
  • Beer
  • Wine
  • Milk

Sounds easy? Try it with me then. I dare you. No coffee. Sorry soda-drinkers, put the can down.

During the month, I will attempt to keep the blog updated with obstacles I face, benefits to drinking more water, and maybe even a haiku, as I miss doing those.

After speaking with some friends about the challenge we've established that if it is customary in the United States to consume any questionable items with a spoon then it is okay. So, if I'm so inclined, soup and cereal would be fine. But if there is extra milk, cereal must be added. Whether or not a smoothies and shakes are also off limits was a subject of fun debate, but they are also banned.

If invited, I will still go to dinners, socials, and gatherings where various types of beverages are served, but during the month of May, I am drinking nothing but water.

Happy (Mimosa Free) Mother's Day!

April Results!

For the first "fan submitted" challenge I was tasked with rising each morning at 5AM and adhering to a strict schedule including a workout, a healthy breakfast, a shower, reading and meditation. Going into this challenge I knew that it would be essential that I go to bed at an early hour. On the second night of my challenge, I laid in bed staring at the ceiling unable to sleep. Don't get me wrong, I was tired and ready for bed. I did everything the experts tell you to do to ensure a great nights sleep. Avoid eating and electronic screens at least an hour before bed, read a book, keep the noise level down, and keep the room dark and cool, around 65° F or 18° C.

It was like the night before the first day of school, I couldn't wait to get up and continue this challenge which was going to change my life forever. I went to bed at a healthy hour, surely I'll fall asleep soon. Even if the clock said I wouldn't get enough sleep, I'd wake up and knock this challenge out of the park. Right?


Anyone that has lived or visited LA in the past year knows one of my favorite hang outs is the Dresden Restaurant, which features the live entertainment of Marty & Elayne. I had been looking forward to attending the 30th Anniversary of said performers for some time, and lucky for me it fell in the month of April. Surely, I could see friends, pay tribute, have one drink and be back home to answer my 5AM wake up call. Right?



Challenge Result: FAILED

Analysis:

Let me first start by thanking Ben O for suggesting this challenge. Not only was it timely, it was definitely challenging. This was the perfect challenge for April and if the 14th of Nisan means anything to you, you'd understand why. Every day I didn't get up at 5, it really hurt. Or when I'd get up at 5 but sluggishly move through the tasks, or not even try, it hurt. It hurt even more when people would ask how the challenge was going on days that I hadn't gotten up on time, but the days I completed the challenge, were the best days I've had in a long time. I got so much work done, I felt great, and my energy level was up. Unfortunately, this didn't happen every day.


But why didn't it happen every day? Burning the candle at both ends didn't help. I'm still noticing a lack of commitment. This was the month that I needed to push myself and that didn't happen enough. My sleeping behavior was too inconsistent. There was no strong habit of waking up at 5 established, and I confused my body with the irregular sleeping pattern. Even though I failed to complete the task every day, or even more often than not, I noticed some positive changes.

Every day my alarm went off at 5AM. The days I hit the snooze, I still woke up hours earlier than I had previous months, essentially giving myself more hours in the day to get the things done I seek, which was half of the allure to this challenge. I've changed my internal body clock. Naturally, I've begun to wake up before my alarm clock goes off and not only am I awake, I'm ready to start the day with a bang. Overall, my sleep habits have improved, so in that sense, I look at this month as a success. Will I try this again? Definitely. I'm going to try this challenge again, and the results will be different. I suggest you do the same. Here are some tips:

  • Set a schedule - will be much easier to wake up earlier if you have a reason to
  • Tell a friend - Being held accountable by friends/family is a very strong motivator
  • Keep a calendar - Tracking your habits, which days you get up earlier, which days you sleep in, is a good way to see if you need improvement, or where changes need to be made. (Credit Amy O)


I didn't wake up every day at 5AM, I didn't read as much as I wanted to, but I got up earlier, I read more than last month, and I had a great time at The Dresden supporting my friends.

Monday, April 4, 2011

April Challenge!

For the month of April I opened up Living Challenged to my three faithful readers in helping me decide a great challenge. Many suggestions poured came in. Some of my favorites were:

Wear a banana suit for a day
-Surf in overalls
-Babysit every day for a month
-Write a handwritten letter to someone every day
-create something small every day that will lead to a large project by the end of the month


When it came time to deciding the one that seemed most appropriate and most challenging for this month was a challenge that would test me mentally & physically. I have to wake up every morning, "and I do mean EVERY day", at 5AM and follow a beneficial schedule:

5:00-5:30 - Work out.
5:30-6:15 - Breakfast & Shower.
6:15-7:15 - Reading & Meditation.

Anyone that knows me, knows I'm a night owl. But its the early bird that beats L.A. traffic.


This challenge is going to be a game changer. It will be the first challenge the really requires my entire lifestyle to shift. Going to bed at a decent hour is a NECESSITY to succeeding in this challenge. Proper nutrients, planning out my reading material, and focusing will no doubt play a huge role. I'm not certain how I'll update my triad of readers but I'll do my best to keep updating. Until then, goodnight.

March Results!

My initial goal for the March challenge was to write and post a haiku for each day of the month. The end results was to commit to a task daily, exercise my creative muscle and as a reflection of my daily life. I find that sometimes people, including myself, get caught up in the daily chores of life that we miss the beauty and tend to remember the banality.

There were some doubts going into this challenge. Would I forget to commit? Would I have anything to write about? Would I get distracted and fail to write? Was this a pointless challenge?


Challenge Result: PASSED

Analysis:

This challenge turned out much better/profitable than I had expected. While I found that I didn't write as much about my daily surroundings I did find that I now had a creative outlet that I had been missing to express various thoughts and feelings. Many of the haikus enabled me to vent frustrations and express those frustrations about myself, other people, certain relationships, work, among other things. It also enabled me to express my appreciation and love for friends and family. I've always loved metaphors, and being able to say things, I sometimes can't say directly. This may be a cop out, but its my tribute to them, most of the haikus were very personal, and unashamedly honest.

This challenge really enabled me to begin the blogging processes, and connect with others. One haiku was just adapted into a song, and another one might by another talented musician.

Stand out favorites for me include:
Reprise
Above & Below
Weapon of Choice (recently adapted into a song!)

Thank you to everyone that gave me feedback. You're critiques and appreciation are always welcome, appreciated, and respected.

The Weapon

The wonderfully multi-talented Mark Hulme of Markjhulme.com
adapted "Weapon of Choice" one of my Haikus from the March challenge and created the beautiful and catchy "The Weapon".
Definitely want to give this a listen.

Listen or download: The Weapon

Mark has been releasing music twice a month since January with the aid of his trusty ukulele.

Friday, April 1, 2011

Reprise

Right again mentor
Is this going to hurt me?
Help me and I'll try

Headed south again
At least I’m driving this time
Nothings changed but me

Was meant to be nice.
But things turned around somehow
I hope you're all right

Did you not realize?
The secrets I should have shared
Would not have helped us

Could you have cared less?
Because it seems you couldn’t
Is that what you meant?

Knowing my follies
Or thinking that you know them
You don't have me pegged.

Not going away
This city is big enough
I don't mind sharing

What we did last night
Why won’t they come and join us
Or tell us the truth.

There are so many
Yet we're found looking for more
There's something wrong here!

Going by birth name
You going to do the same?
Calm down it's a game

Growing to grow up
Was meant to only pain me
I hope you’re all right.

Please don't stop talking
Smile, I need some sunshine too
You hope I’m all right?

Why did I bother?
So much pudding but no proof
Dancing days are through.

Teach me to be me.
I want to thank my sister
How can I explain?

Lets be gentlemen
Running around playing roles.
Or you want them to?

I won't let this be.
Tired of watching us sit
As it all happens

How many friends go?
Before you think something’s wrong,
with how you choose life

And what about those
If you want to look like that
We'll treat you like that

Was it our fault then?
Pushing them to reclusion
How can we sleep tight?

I hope you're alright
Sorry it took me so long
I hope you're all right.

Not going to float
Not going to live their life
Wasted potential

They said I was right
Do you want to prove me wrong?
Victory feels good.

Did you hear him speak?
Then what's the excuse for crime
Selfish First Degree

Why do you forget?
How the opus made you feel
After curtain call.

It's not that easy
But we can find the answer
If we lose our self.

You know you are right
Do you want to prove me wrong?
Just to feel better?

When we go to sleep.
Someones right, someones wrong, but,
What's the difference?